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24th October 2007

Am I an Embarrassment to my Family, What do you think??

My entire family reads this site.  Yes, I see you. Today you have been here with vengeance or at least that is what my statistics say.  I think it is the man picture.  Who knows though.

They never leave comments though and basically have no interactions with me.  I think I got 3 cards on my birthday.  I have no hard feelings though, I don’t send too many cards either.  The only stuff they know about me is what I write on here and I am getting so I know nothing about them.

I think they think it strange of me to not want to visit them all on holidays and the like because they know so much about me.  This site is sort of like watching my life progress in some ways.  For them, I imagine being with me is like being with someone who never left.  Yes, I am that honest on here. 

That said though, I am here though wondering why they don’t comment, why don’t they e-mail me, why don’t they do anything to make communication go in both directions??  Is the internet and this site that daunting?? 

What do you think my commenting friends…??  If you were my aunt would you comment??  Would you like me to join your family??  LOL…

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23rd October 2007

M&M’s…

20070911_00208pDo any of your remember this post?  Where I humbly offered my large bag of M&M’s over to Problogger.  Well, he never took me up on them as a prize for his massive giveaway.  I am not sure if I should be offended or not…

Anyways…I have to give them away because I said I would and because I won’t want to eat them.  So, what would you do for some M&M’s..what should be the criteria?  I have never given a prize away to my readers.

Let me know…

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7th October 2007

Win Brian Gardner News Revolution Theme

hp-test I want to win, you can try too. 

Why do I want to win, so I can read the code and learn from it.  Brian is one of the best coders around in my opinion and I have studied his Blue Zinfindal theme as inspiration for many of my changes here.  These new News style sites are very intriguing from a code standpoint.

I am pretty sure that Scott over at www.mdcrei.com would like this as a theme, so after I won.  I would probably load up his site with it.  I am nice like that you know.

There you go, my honest reasoning.  It isn’t all that creative, but wish me luck.

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3rd October 2007

No M&M’s…

I offered to give away M&M’s in the Problogger Birthday Bash.  They didn’t show up on the prize list.  I am not sure if it was an error or it is for real, as he said he was going to use all the prizes.  I honestly wish I could afford to give away 2 monitors like DisplayLink, is doing.  I can’t even afford one new monitor for myself, though so I am entering there contest.

I am hoping to win these though…I would than give away a pretty nice Acer Monitor 19 inch widescreen, to one of my readers.  So, wish for me to win.  Is it selfish that I would keep the matching pair??? 

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30th September 2007

Having Diabetes Is Rough Even To Watch Sometimes

Last night was strange, I actually posted after midnight here.  That is because Stan was having a sugar crisis.  Here is basically how a low sugar crisis is here….it is so so very scary.  Yes, SCARY!

It is 10:30.  I am at my computer, but very easily could have been designated driving.  That got canceled which is a good thing. 

He called down through the vents if I could bring him some water.  This is strange because he can walk.  I am thinking to myself “Get Your Own Water”.  I know sometimes he has trouble though and am also thinking that he might think he will fall in the dark.  I go up and get a glass of water for him.  I turn on the lights and look at him.

He is sweating, I don’t mean a little sweat.  I mean the bed sheets are soaked enough to be rung out like a towel accidentally dropped into bath water.

I head for the glucose meter.  It tests 48, which is low, but not extreme.  I know that it is dropping though from the way he is acting and all that sweat.

I got him 2 glucose tablets and a bowl of pears.  He likes pears.

He is heading out of it now as his sugar drops quickly when it starts going down.  I wait 20 minutes though and test it again.  It is 34 which is extremely low.

He is swinging his arms now like an ape.  He has both hands up above his head and he is swinging at random.  He is screaming “Oh Dear” and laughing.  I do mean screaming….I think the house was shaking.  I was surprised Kyra didn’t wake up thinking what the hell is going on.  She was at the other end of the house though and downstairs.

He kept doing this, but he doesn’t know what he is doing and I know it.  I am pretty much freaking out.  I am 1/2 scared he is going to slug me. 

I also know that he has had enough sugar to raise his levels.  I go downstairs for safety and listen for him to stop doing this.  He shortly does, well maybe 10 minutes.

I go back upstairs and he has no recollection of what he just did a few minutes ago.  I know he is telling the truth as I have seen these with him quite a few times.

I test his sugar it is 43, but rising.  The rising is a huge difference compared to 48 and falling. 

I get him a sippy cup of orange juice.  Yes…sippy cup like I use for Kyra.  He is in bed and will spill a glass everywhere.  He is getting better, but still not 100% in control.

About 5 minutes later, I get him a piece of cake with icing.  I actually get one for myself too.  Cake yum…  I sit with Stan in his room with him in his underwear, not a suggested viewing by the way.  We eat cake.

He goes back to bed.  I come downstairs and post about some idiot bus driver who shouldn’t be driving that had just hit my inbox.  I stayed up an hour.  I went back up and tested his sugar in that hour.  He didn’t even wake up to know I was testing it.  His levels was 115.

I came down and went to bed.  I was exhausted, but glad that I was home for all this.

His sugar was only 180 in the morning after all that sugar I gave him during the night.  (2 glucose tablets, pears, orange juice, and cake with icing)  Each of those items is considered a sugar serving with a meal and he only has 2 sugar servings per meal.  I have no idea why it takes so much for his sugar to rise when it drops like this.  The doctors say to only give 3 sugar servings when it is low.

If you have never experienced diabetes you may wonder what causes all this.  Diabetes is a balancing act of eating the amount of carbs needed versus taking the amount of insulin that your body needs to absorb the carbs (if you take insulin there are other medicines too).

Stan is taking too much insulin, but not because it was always too much.  He is losing weight and eating correctly.  His body is functioning at a higher degree by itself than it did when he first moved here. 

That was May 19th.  When he moved here, he was taking 340 units of insulin per day.  He is now over 60 pounds lighter and takes less than 90 units of insulin per day which we will be lowering this week.  He has a doctors appointment on Thursday…I think it is.

In the meantime, he will be eating a few extra carbs with his last meal of the day to balance off the insulin that he doesn’t seem to be needing now.

Diabetes is rough and scary and hard to watch even as a bi-stander when it acts out.  I can’t imagine how rough it is to have this controlling your body and everything you do.  If you have Diabetes, I have the utmost respect for how you live and are able to control this sometimes uncontrollable disease.

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29th September 2007

ProBlogger- Which Plugins Do You Use??

Probloggers asks his readers which plugins they use, so I thought I would answer this. I don’t post very often about my blogging here, I usually save those types as guest posts for on other sites. I am going to go ahead and share my plugins here though, so if you aren’t a blogger, you probably won’t know what I am talking about and can just skip this post.

I just cleaned up my plugins yesterday though, so this information is all fresh in my mind.

Here is my top 9. I currently use 15.

  1. Add Sig - This adds a custom signature to the bottom of your posts. I use this one and off to put extra information on my posts. It puts information on all the posts, but when I change it. It changes it on all the posts, so I can put like “Check out my advertiser ________________”. I than delete the line and it is gone from all the posts.
  2. Enforce www. Preference - I like the www, so I make it so that if you don’t enter it. I will for you.
  3. Executable PHP Widget - I don’t have a link to this one. It allows me to run PHP Widgets though which my only one is the one that is on the individual post page that has all the social network submittal sites on it. The top left of the sidebar.
  4. SRG Clean Archives - I honestly have no idea what archives look like without this, so I just leave it. You can let me know what it does…LOL.
  5. Subscribe to Comments - This is one that I really like. It allows commenter’s to get e-mails with all the replies to the post they commented on. I don’t get that many comments here, so I by default have it set to do this e-mailing. I think the post with the most comments here has like 15, so nobody is overwhelmed with these e-mails here.
  6. WP-UsersOnline - This is the count of how many users are online at any given time. It is displayed on my right side bar toward the bottom. It is mostly for my own personal entertainment.
  7. Do Follow - I am a do follow site, so when you leave a comment here. The links is viewable by search engines and the like. I don’t get to many spam comments, so I leave this enabled. I did go through a time where I was getting a lot of spam, so I turned this off temporary. It is mostly wonderful people who comment here, so I figure why not follow them around.
  8. Akismet - This is my spam filter obviously. It does great work. I have a few additional words being moderated, but for the most part. Your comments with valid links will immediately be show thanks to the wonderful Akismet.
  9. My absolute favorite though is Featuring CountComments. This is the plug in that announces how many prior comments the person has left, like for example if you look after my name it says something like “Thanks for comments #525″. I love knowing how many comments a person has made previously. I did a lot of work to get this one to install properly though, so if you aren’t a little able to do coding. This isn’t one for you.

There you have it my most important plugins. Did you learn of one you didn’t know about??

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28th September 2007

School Dances

The middle school I drive for had a school dance today for 6th and 7th grade.  It was only 2 hours long and basically in the middle of the day.  The kids were about as excited as they could possibly be with comments this morning along the lines of “How am I going to concentrate on school today?”.

I must have some of the most popular kids as well because of the 25 middle school students I drive.  I only had 6 this afternoon.

The school here has hardly any dances during the year with the high school only hosting Homecoming and Prom.  There aren’t other dances at all.

Now, I went to school in a different area.  When I went to school holding a dance was the major fundraising effort of about every organization within the school.  You only needed like 4 teachers and 4 parents to chaperone and the ______________ Boosters could hold a dance.  There were so many different things like cheerleading booster, football boosters, band booster, well every sport that there was hardly a Friday Night that a dance wasn’t held.

They were like $5 to get in and you had to sign in.  You weren’t allowed to leave and come back without paying again…so basically nobody left.  They were held late in the evening not starting until 9 or so and not ending til like 1 in the morning.

I loved going to dances.  It was very common though for me to be grounded from them.  I usually left before they were over too. 

I always had fun at them and never, honest, did anything I shouldn’t have at them.  I was a good girl.  I still am of course.

The school I drive for seems a bit on the paranoid side.  They hold them in broad day light and the girls aren’t allowed to even wear dresses.

What is your school’s policy on dances??

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27th September 2007

Married Men…

Okay, so now I am officially single by my terms. 

I am having issues though as some of my married friends have been hitting on me.  They never did this when I was married and I am quite uncomfortable with it. 

On the same note, some of my married men friends have been afraid to visit with me because they don’t want to cause trouble.  You can not cause trouble with me because there is nobody for me to be in trouble from, so if your intentions are to just visit. Well, by all means.  Please come visit, bring your wife if you can.  I generally like visiting with wives as well.

If your intentions are not decent well I am not interested.  I couldn’t live with myself being “the other women”.  I am okay without a man honestly and I would much rather an available one…I am not much of a sneak.  Take a look around here if you don’t believe me.

If you are married respect your wife and don’t lie to her and sneak around, it is so hurtful.

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25th September 2007

My Titles Suck…

I have decided to leave the Gack Network, so yesterday.  I took the logo off my sidebar and e-mailed them telling them I was leaving.  Of course, they want to know why, so I told them I haven’t had hardly any traffic from being in it. Which is the truth, less than 20 people came from there.

The lady responsible told me (not in a mean way, she was nice) the reason for not getting traffic was because my titles suck and I am marketing myself wrong.  That she couldn’t learn anything from a bus driver.  

The other one told me that I didn’t give it enough of a chance and that my monetization sucks. She was nice too. 

So, it is really easy to bow out of this one.

If you are thinking about joining a network.  You should know that the reason you do this is for credibility.  You are virtually not creditable at all unless you are in a network, so I have learned.  If you want to be a professional blogger, you should go ahead and join, join, join.

I personally think I will stay here with my sucky titles. 

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22nd September 2007

More look-alike meters…fun.

I thought I would have a little fun with this one, who knows why?? Anyways…this is the comparison between my dad and Adam’s dad with Kyra.

This one is me and a lady whom I don’t know that happens to have been taking admission to the rock show I went to last weekend or essentially me versus a stranger. LOL…

Ok that was fun, but that is enough of that.

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